Note: Physical =Extrovert (Also, this is the extreme case of this personality)
The physical father is known by many names; the go getter, a leader, the A type personality, hustler, playa playa, a ‘real man’, the life of the party, quick-tempered, a**hole, mover and shaker… and the list goes on. So let’s see how this personality works in a relationship.
The physical male/female are called this because of their physical connection to their emotions. This means if they think or feel it, they typically are going to do or say it and typically before thinking or caring about the ’emotional’ consequences behind it. This is also the reason for their promiscuity, quick tongue and most importantly spontaneity.
Most likely you’ve married an emotional that sees you as bossy, never home, needing too much sex and a serious charmer…to other women that is. When you walk into a room people tense up because they never know when you’re going to snap about something insignificant and then go on like nothing ever happened.
I almost don’t need to tell you how to make your home life a little easier because (I mean this in the best way) you’re not a good listener; you’re a great talker. You’re a giver, not a receiver but the havoc that you wreak on those around you clouds your good intentions. People don’t take your candor the way that you mean for them to…they take it personally.
The physical affection that you show your family is unmatched, however your quick temper and passion can easily turn into physical abuse. This just comes from your need to ‘physically’ express your emotions. You will effectively turn your children into bullies, outspoken problem kids in school. If your child is always getting into trouble for talking in class or not following directions…its very likely that you’re already successful in passing down your traits.
I want to reiterate that this personality is not bad or negative, it just is! The whole purpose of attracting your opposite is to bring balance to your life. There is nothing wrong with the person that you’re with, they must have a smaller personality to make room for your huge one. If you think that you’d be better off with someone more like yourself…ha please go try it. You’d make great friends with a physical partner but you’d kill each other in a relationship. You’d argue all the time over what would seem like little things. You’d always be gone…so would she. The biggest argument would be…you’re not the boss of me!!!
Ok, lastly let me say that because you have sex with your body and not your mind (emotions), it’s harder for you to be satisfied. This leads to late nights at the office, more ‘hanging out’ with the guys etc. What you may not know is that although your emotional partner may not face you directly about your behavior, they are doing something about it. You should talk to: Lionel Richie, Al Green and most painfully John Bobbitt.
At the end of the day it’s just about balance; so physical father if you’d like to make home life a little better; count to ten before reacting in any situation…calm down then speak or take action…everything doesn’t require a fight!