This is a common phrase used by many men to describe the type of woman they consider to be marriage material. Women will also say they want a sensitive man that knows how to get a little rough when the moment calls for it. In each of these scenarios, what’s being described is a person of balance.
This is an example of an Emotional suggestible and a Physical sexual. This is a woman who carries herself in a more conservative fashion while out in public but is unstoppable in the bedroom. Most men will go for the quiet passive type for long-term relationship purposes but they’ll cheat on her with the ‘freak in the sheets’ type. This is where the idea that men are never satisfied comes from. No matter how much the main girl does at home it’s never enough. Why is this? It’s because the very thing that makes her a conservative in public makes her conservative at home. The Emotional sexual is not connected to their physical body the way the Physical sexual is. She needs to be warmed up before jumping right into sex, this brings their feelings to the surface. She’s normally not a risk taker and will chastise him for being too much of a risk taker. The man becomes frustrated by her lack of sexual energy and the ‘I don’t do that type of thing’ attitude and will find someone else who will ‘do that type of thing’. She finds out that he’s cheating, will not understand why and begins to blame herself for his actions or just tells him to get out and the
relationship is destroyed.
Now, none of this applies if you’re not in a serious relationship or marriage. However, if you are looking to be with this person for the rest of your life, there will have to be some changes. Just because you decide that since you’ve never done a particular thing that you never will doesn’t mean that your mate is going to say “Oh ok, then I don’t want to do it either”. It’s just like squeezing a water balloon, the bubble will just pop up somewhere else. So, aside from causing physical harm to yourself or going against your morals there should not be anything that you wouldn’t do for one another; especially if you’re married. Imagine living the rest of your life not being able to get what you want from the person you love just because they don’t want to…not a good feeling. If you’d like to bring scripture into this look up (Hebrews 13:4 “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled”). Chastity before marriage is great but chastity after marriage is a disaster.
There is more to this story such as the man that doesn’t want intimacy as much as the woman or how much is too much, but I’m trying to keep this as short as possible. So the bottom line is, once you’ve found that special someone, go all out for them as they should be going all out for you. This way they don’t even have the energy to see the freak in the streets.
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