Logically Emotional

One doesn’t have to become a nueroscientist to understand that there are two sides of the brain and we tend to lean more to one side than the other.  What we typically fail to realize however, is how important learning the other side really is.  Take a look at the chart below:

 

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Which side best describes you most of the time?  Are you equally represented on both sides?  Which characteristics are presented that you don’t have but would like to?  Let’s take a look at how the our suggestibility and sexuality are represented in this chart.  Suggestibility being how we learn and Sexuality being how we act.

The Right brain or Physical behavior typically lives life from the present into the future whereas the Left brain lives from the future back to the present.  Meaning that the physical lives more for the moment and whatever happens, happens (feelings).  The Emotional makes present decisions based on what they perceive the future results will  be (analytical).  We call this the devil and the angel on our shoulder, one side is saying “Do it! Do it!”  While the other side is saying, ” think….about…ittttt.”  This means that we all have both sides, we simply suppress the subdominant side.  When we meet someone who is our opposite, we’re subconsciously aware of and a lot of times attracted to this behavior; only to become an enemy of it later.

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Our opposites represent the physical manifestation of the other side of our brains.  This is what causes most of the troubles in relationships as it relates to communicating; which side is more dominant?  If one person feels that they’re not getting their fair amount of representation, they’ll begin to become more exaggerated in their behavior.  The emotional will become more distant and the physical will become more excited.  Bom …Bom…Bommm…and the fighting begins.

The riddle here is for each side to learn the other for your own development.  There are four parts to the equation, physical/emotional suggestible – physical/emotional sexual.  This means that there are two ways that we see and do things (physical or sexuality) and two ways that we hear and interpret things (emotional or suggestibility).  Ironically, we have two eyes, two ears, two sides to the testicles and the ovaries…all physical manifestations.  I’m beginning to think that there’s something behind this opposites thing.

I guess it all comes back down to learning who and what you are, the good and the bad if you want to call it that. Once we obtain that balance within ourselves, it becomes easier to recognize and or build it in someone else.  Alternating current or direct current mean nothing seperately, it’s not until they come together in a balanced equation do they make electricity or give power.

Our successes or failures come from the suggestions that have been placed in front of us along the way and how we’ve responded to them.  If you look closely at the brain it kind of looks like a maze;  it’s like we spend the majority of our lives trying to find a way out of it never realizing that the only way out is through.

 

– Dehypnotize

Radioactive Relationships

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Since there are so many similarities between the very small and very large (atoms look like solar systems etc.), I thought using radioactivity in an atom and issues in relationships would be a good comparison.

Binding energy is the energy that is associated with the strong force, and this energy holds the nucleus together.

• Love is the energy that is associated with the understanding, and this energy holds the nucleus of a relationship together.

A stable atom is an atom that has enough binding energy to hold the nucleus together permanently.

• A stable relationship is one that has enough love and understanding to hold the relationship together permanently.

An unstable atom does not have enough binding energy to hold the nucleus together permanently and is called a radioactive atom

• An unstable relationship does not have enough love or understanding to hold the relationship together permanently and is called a radioactive relationship

In most cases, elements like to have an equal number of protons and neutrons because this makes them the most stable. Atoms with unstable nuclei are constantly changing as a result of the imbalance of energy within the nucleus.

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• In most cases people should be with their equal and opposite behavior because this makes them the most stable. Relationships with lop-sided behavior types are unstable and constantly changing as a result of the imbalance between the two people.
  

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Stable atoms have a binding energy that is strong enough to hold the protons and neutrons together. Even if an atom has an extra neutron or two it may remain stable. In an unstable atom, the nucleus changes by giving off a neutron to get back to a balanced state. As the unstable nucleus changes, it gives off radiation and is said to be radioactive.

• Stable individuals have a love or understanding that is strong enough to hold the relationship together. Even if one individual becomes selfish at times the relationship can remain stable. When one person feels they’ve been done wrong they react in a way to get things back to ‘normal’. If this reaction doesn’t work the person increases their response creating a heated moment known as a fight or argument and is said to be radioactive.

Even on the atomic level, balance is the key to success. Just as radioactivity is the result of the imbalance of a nucleus, issues in a relationship are the result of an imbalance in the two individuals. Arguments are meant to bring balance back to the core, not cause nuclear explosions.

Thank you to : http://www.ndt-ed.org/EducationResources/HighSchool/Radiography/radioactivity.htm for a great read.

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Your Handwriting Explained (further)

Photo Credit: Charles Elliot’s handwriting to Clara Elliot
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In earlier posts, I’ve given a few examples of how our handwriting shows a lot about our personalities.  In this post I’ll get more into the letters.  For example:

Write this sentence in cursive if possible.  Sam’s flem flam flemming in a serious  situation will likely cause more issues.

Ok, take a look at your upper loops in your f’s and l’s.  Is the loop wide or thin?  A wide loop suggests that you’re ‘open’ to the opinions or suggestions of others.  A closed loop suggests the opposite.  If you’ve ever tried to convince someone of something and no matter how hard you tried they just wouldn’t go for it, this person probably has very narrow loops if any at all.  On the other hand the person that seems to go whichever way the wind blows probably has almost circular loops.

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Next, take a look at your m’s and n’s.  Are they wide, narrow, or medium-sized?  Wide m’s or n’s typically show the Physical personality (extrovert).  Narrow m’s and n’s typically indicate an Emotional personality (introvert).  Medium sized m’s and n’s indicate more of a balance between the two.

Does your s look like the number eight?  This is normally an indicator of artistic qualities.  The ‘normal’ s indicates the ability to fit in or follow directions.

Lastly,  look at your lower loops in the g’s and y’s.  If your loops are big wide and connect back to the base line or the u part of the y, you are most likely a Physical.  If your loops curl near the bottom or go straight down without curving at all, you’re most likely an Emotional.

In this technological revolution the art of writing is being lost to the convenience of doing it faster. Writing is therapeutic in that it reveals our emotional states and can actually change them when directed to do so.

Take a look at your mates writing, if it’s the opposite of yours, this is normally a sign of good compatibility.  I didn’t say it means you’re supposed to be with this specific person, just that you are compatible with them.  Don’t worry if your handwriting is the same as theirs, this is only for entertainment purposes and something fun to know.

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The Silver Tongue

In high school I was the quiet type.  I envied the guys with the ‘silver tongue’ method of communicating; it seemed that they got all the women.  Now I had my share of girlfriends don’t get me wrong, but compared to these guys I was a ranked amatuer.  Most of the girls I dated was because they liked me first, then I’d learn to like them in return.  It seemed that I was doomed to the left overs of these egotistical word smiths. 

Until one day…I moved to a new city.  I could create a new identity and become the personality I admired from a diistance.  The city was overrun with beautiful single professional women.  A friend told me that all I needed to get a woman here was a nice haircut…Ha.  I was like a kid in a candy store…every size, shape or shade was there for the taking.  I didn’t know where to begin.  It didn’t matter, because in this city, the women were the agressors.  I thought it was a fluke that  nice looking women wanted to talk to me badly enough to innitiate conversation.  Once it happened five more times…I was convenced that I’d died and gone to heaven.  I never considered my self some god of good looks (and still don’t) but there were so many women that I was getting dates by default..lol.  Subsequently my plan to become this A type personality was thwarted.  Women actually liked that I was not like all the other guys that approached them…I was ‘different’ they’d say.  I had no idea that this world existed but I liked it to say the least.

At the end of the day I learned that you don’t have to be someone else to be successful in life…you only need to put yourself where your personality would be most effective.

P.S. The silver tongue method can be taught.

– Dehypnotize

The Book Of Life

My wife and I were recently browsing the internet and decided to type our names in to see what came up… wow! Are you kidding me?  I found things that I didn’t even know about myself.  Things long forgotten began to surface.  Places I’d lived, pictures of family outings, I mean my entire life since the beginning of the internet age and before was looking back at me from this computer screen.

There was a man by the name of Edgar Cayce aka the sleeping prophet, he was known for having what we call psychic abilities.  Prominent indivuals of the time would stand in line for a chance to ask question about whatever they could think of; including Thomas Edison and Woodrow Wilson.  Cayce was a devout Christian who practiced hypnosis as a means of communicating with the ‘other side’.  When asked where he was retrieving this information, he replied, “the Akashic Records”.  For anyone not familiar with this term,

The akashic records (akasha is a Sanskrit word meaning “sky“, “space” or “aether“) is a term used in theosophy (and Anthroposophy) to describe a compendium of mystical knowledge encoded in a non-physical plane of existence. These records are described as containing all knowledge of human experience and the history of the cosmos.  People who describe the records assert that they are constantly updated automatically and that they can be accessed through astral projection^[1] or when someone is placed under deep hypnosis.(Wikipedia)

This cosmic computer is referred to in many religions as the Book of Life.  It is an account of all that we’ve done since birth.  Why, pray tell is there a record being kept of all that we do in our lives?  Are we hoping to go back and relive those times?  Is it just for reminding us of where we come from?  Wanna know what I think?…of course you do…lol.  I think that just as it is termed the ‘Uni-verse’ (one collection of words) we are all only vibrations of sound traveling through the vacuum of space leaving our imprints as we go.

We write our own stories everyday oblivious to the fact that one day someone is going to read them.

Drunk Drivers

My heartfelt condolences to anyone who has ever been affected by the irresponsible acts of a drunken driver.  As you’ll see later, all of us have been or have been affected by these careless acts of destruction.  This post looks to address the of the influence of ‘spirits’ or feelings on our everyday lives.

Here’s one definition of the word drunk – overcome or dominated by a strong feeling or emotion.  Hmm… anyone not fall into this category?  It seems that  we all struggle daily with our feelings and emotions and the decisions that we make based on them.  If you think about it, where you are in life now is based on the decisions that were made according to how you felt at the time.  The funny thing is that we continue to do this even if not being totally satisfied with our previous results.

It’s hard to conceive the idea that we live in the past, present and the future at the same time.  This is due to our perception of time.  For example, by the time you can say the word present, it’s already in the past.  The thought of saying the word is projected into the future ; the process of saying it is your present.  Now why is this important?  Because when you understand this concept, you will then be able to ‘control’ your future by simply extending the mental present into the physical future.  In other words you’ll become proactive in your life as opposed to reactive to your feelings and emotions.

Networks are making a fortune capitalizing off of these ‘drunk drivers’ under the guise of ‘Reality TV’ and they are none the wiser.  All they know is that trick better stop talking smack before she gets smacked!  I can see in real time the effects this behavior has on our communities; just read some of the posts on FB…smh

Your body is your vehicle and you know by now that your emotions are the alcohol.  Please take control of your car and manage your alcohol intake on all levels!

Anti-Matter

GENEVA – Scientists claimed a breakthrough in solving one of the biggest riddles of physics, successfully trapping the first “anti-atom” in a quest to understand what happened to all the antimatter that has vanished since the Big Bang. – AP

     Even if you don’t believe in the Big Bang theory, this is big news to all of us.  Why? Well, I’m glad you asked.  Let’s deal first with the notion that science is anti-religious.  This could not be further from the truth. 2 Peter offers us a glimpse into this battle of intellects with this verse:  

3:10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up.

     If you’re able to read this post I’m sure you have some awareness of the periodic table and the list of all ‘known’ elements.  How is it possible that Peter is speaking of elements in the bible when the isolation of these elements did not began until recent ‘recorded’ history? 

     I’ll tell you how.  We are inundated with so much information on a daily basis we don’t take or have the time to research something so remedial.  So, here’s the big secret (don’t tell anyone though).  People in the Bible were studying science too, they just called it by a different name… belief.  It deals heavily with the idea of believing what you can’t see, whereas science is more concerned with explaining what it is that we can see and document.  One last point to this, for anyone who still thinks science is evil, you may want to consider that fact that it took science to print the very holy text that we read today…hmm.

     So, what does all of this have to do with anti-matter?  Well, the way that I see it is everything has an opposite regardless of which title you give it; up/down, left/right, in/out and so on.  Sometimes the simplest answer is the right answer so I suggest that if there’s a me that I can see (matter) then there’s  a me that I can’t see (anti-matter).  Interestingly enough, it’s the me that I can’t see that controls the one that I can…(crazy)

Has science found a way to peer into the spirit world? ….just a question.

T Scott

Do Men Have Cylces?

     As it relates to mood and sex,….sigh…yes, men do in fact have cycles.  In the emotionally sexual male it appears, at times, as a lack of interest in their partner.  It’s expressed as an over-active sex drive in the physically sexual male. By the way, women fall into one or the other category as well.

     Let’s start with the emotional.  As it relates to sex, the emotional operates somewhat like a battery; after being used, he may require time to recharge.  That’s not to say that they can’t perform everyday, it’s just not likely to be the same enegy level each time.  Each person’s cycle is different.  They could be on a 1-7 day cycle or more as I recently discovered while working with a client. 

     The emotional is typically not up for physical touch after sex.  They’ve had their fill of physical contact for that moment.  Touch feels irritating to them and their bodies may even tend to be cold, until their next cycle day.  So, how do you know when that ‘cycle day is?  When they begin to show more interest in you physically that’s a good indicator.  That’s when their batteries have fully recharged and they’re ready.

    Why is that?  Well, emotional’s are not as ’emotionally’ connected to their bodies as the physicals are; remember they internalize and analyze their feelings.  Therefore, the mind has to rejuvenate the body.  During this time don’t expect a lot of affection or attention… they are not ‘feeling it’. 

     The physical on the other hand expresses their emotions with their body so you may find that they can do it five times a day or more in some cases.  They don’t mind cuddling afterwards either, for the most part.  The cycle of the physical is much more frequent than that of the emotional.  They typically don’t ‘release’ as much as the emotional each time and are therefore able to release multiple times.  That’s not to say (again) that there’ll be fireworks each time; it’s just that its possible to do it.  The physical may become very irritated if they’re not able to release all of this energy within their cycle time frame; but more importantly, their physical body’s will display signs of stress… really.

      The key here is to understand your own behaviour or cycle in an effort to get it into sync with your partner’s.  The physical could indeed influence the emotional’s cycle by only approaching them only on their cycle days; which will require something that the physical typically runs short on…patience.  However, the sex will be ten times better, from there start approaching one day earlier and take the time to get them ‘warmed up’.  So now a seven-day cycle becomes a six-day and so on…

     In closing, no matter who or what you ultimately choose to be in relationship with, they’re going to be your opposite; that’s what attracted you to them.  This means that there will be issues. No Matter What!  So if you know this before hand, why not be prepared to solve them creatively as opposed to allowing your differences to end what always starts as a beautiful romance.

– Thanks Dr. Kappas

T Scott

Which Way Is Up

 

    

 I’ve always been curious about the Universe; the galaxies, nebulae, the stars and so forth.  Even the word loosely translated means Uni (one) – Verse (Collection of words by an author or writer).  Hmm…One of the things that still intrigues me to this day is our prospective of said Universe.  Given the fact that no matter where we stand on the Earth, from our prospective, we’re standing on top of it.  Here in Atlanta, from the Earth’s prospective, we’re actually on the side of the world.  Well how is it  then that we appear to be looking up at the moon or the sun?  According to the models that I’ve seen, we’re actually looking ‘over’ at these celestial bodies, not up. 

     Here again we’re faced with accepting what has been given to us as truth, when in fact, the truth is relative to how much we know at the time.  Let’s examine a few of these now debunked truths shall we?

• The Earth is flat –  Aristotle offered evidence of the Earth was a sphere around 330 BC
• The Sun revolves around the earth – In the 1600’s Galileo was met with stiff opposition from philosophers and clerics for his support of the heliocentric theory (belief that the Sun is at the center of the Solar System)
• Y2k is Armageddon – We’re still here
• Smart people are witches – Are you a witch?…Well are you?

     I could go on and on but the point is, no matter what was said to the people who believed these theories, they were sold on these ‘facts’.  I have a real problem accepting my role as the customer.  That is to say I’m tired of buying everything presented to me with alluring packaging.    I’ll only use myself as an example since I know I’m the only one who does this.

     When will we become the merchants of our lives?  When will we choose to control the products/information that we consume?  We don’t even question the information that has been given to us, that we base our everyday lives on!  Why? Well, that would make us rebels, weird or different.  People would laugh at us for not being as ignorant as they are….really? 

 Why stand on top of a world of which you have no control?

That’s all for now,

T Scott