K.C. Chiefs Jovan Belcher kills girlfriend shoots himself


 

And the stories continue to come in.  I certainly hope that it’s clear how susceptible we all truly are to our own lives.  Even if it’s not you that snaps, the person you’re with could totally snap.  Would you believe that it’s due to communication deficiencies?  We are simply collections of all that’s been suggested to us and we respond accordingly… keyword respond.

Tragedies like this and so many more are avoidable if we’d only care to Dehypnotize!  We continue to use the same excuses for the same issues yet we expect different results.  Time for a shake up in the same old same…

Police aren’t yet releasing the name of the player or the girlfriend until the family has been notified. Stay tuned for updates.

 

UPDATE: Jovan Belcher, 25 is the player.  Read story here: http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/nfl-shutdown-corner/report-chiefs-player-kills-girlfriend-takes-own-life-154951891–nfl.html

 

 

Evelyn Lozada – Ochocinco Back Together?


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When I first heard the news of the Evelyn and Chad (Ochocinco) Johnson fight, I wasn’t the least bit surprised.  Due to their Physical natures this was bound to happen sooner or later.  Shortly after hearing the news I published a post about how I thought this would turn out (see The Chad Johnson Evelyn Lozada – Therapy ).  In short, my take on this was, because they are the same personality type that they would seem to love each other like they’ve never loved before.  They’d see the turbulence in their relationship as passion and eventually they’d get back together in some capacity.  Since I’m no fortune teller, I left room for my prediction to be wrong… As I scanned the headlines of the day here’s what I found: Evelyn Lozada Wants To End No-Contact Order Against Chad Johnson (http://www.inquisitr.com/380022/evelyn-lozada-wants-to-end-no-contact-order-against-chad-johnson/)

Now this doesn’t mean that they’re back together and everything is fine, but it is a step in that direction.  You see, the thing with Physicals is that they are very connected to their emotions at any given moment which gives the appearance of being unbalanced, hot-headed, bi-polar, passionate and many more emotional labels.  Put two people of this personality together and get ready for the fireworks.

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As I’ve mentioned before, two emotionals together don’t fare much better.  Two Emotionals will take each other completely wrong and sabotage the relationship without ever knowing what went wrong.  Emotionals can be too ‘deep’ for there own good.  In the process of over analyzing everything, they neglect external communication and appear to be anti-social.

The best thing for any relationship is to be with your opposite.  Yes this has it’s own challenges as well but they come from not wanting to learn from the other behavior.  The brain is made up of a left side and a right side.  You lean more to one side than you do the other, your partner should lean to the opposite side.  This creates an environment for you to learn the side that you’re not using consciously.

This may sound too simple to be taken seriously, but this is the answer to all of our communication challenges.  I wish Chad and Evelyn the best in their future, but I’m also looking forward to see what entertaining news develops from this ongoing reality show.

– Dehypnotize

Is it Lust or Love?


                                                                 Lust is a passionate or overmastering desire or craving….(Physically)

 

                                                   Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment… (Emotionally)